REVIEW: Gender Queer - Maia Kobabe

Genre: Memoir | Graphic Novel | LGBTQIA+

Release Date: Expected 5th July 2022

Publisher: Oni Press

Maia Kobabe (e/em/eir) didn't think ey would ever write a graphic novel based on eir life - but here it is in all it's glory. This autobiographical memoir lets us journey with Maia into eir chilhood, and through moments in life full of confusion, realisation and discovery in it's unfiltered, uncompromising authenticity.

"These realisations were like gifts I gave myself."

This story flowed beautifully, each key moment being remembered with striking detail with beautiful reflections - from discovering that different sexualities are possible, to the different ways of coming out, to the pride and beautiful content that comes with self-actualisation.

Aside from this, ey provide stunning discourse on the universal magic of reading, the profound impact of a supportive family and the strange assumptions and expectations placed on women and AFAB people.

The visual style was striking, evoking emotions, nostalgia and familiarity - which gave the entire story such a distinct voice. It felt like the reader and the author having a conversation, one of those ones that goes on for hours until the early hours of the morning where you bare your soul to a valued friend. It was so easy to read, not only because of the seamless story but the accessible format and font.

Something ey said resonated with me somewhere deep - "I don't want to be a girl. I don't want to be a boy. I just want to be myself." - and this is the main thing I took from this book, a celebrating of the validating, clarifying experience that comes from simply allowing yourself to be yourself. Because there isn't a wrong way to be yourself.

Whether you're looking for more understanding about other people, trying to figure it out yourself or just looking for some beautifully human to read - this is one I will read over and over again.

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

I was gifted an advanced reviewers copy of this title in return for an honest review.

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